Monday, October 21, 2013

Noodle

The day Ella used “noodle” in a sentence- August 17, 2013
Ok, so how many of you ate these in college regularly?  Noodles in a box.  There was clearly a box-like square container around these noodles at some point right?  Noodles do not come in a box at my house-- they are "out of the box".  Here is why...
 
Back when I was super nervous about language development for my child and we were counting all of the new words that she used, we got tested frequently for age appropriate vocabulary at the Atlanta Speech School.  I distinctly remember filling out the scantron sheet of words she knew only to have them scored by a machine and then interpreted by her early intervention teacher at the time.  We started doing the MacArthur test  with her as soon as she was expressively using language and I always took pride in her growth. 

I did find the test to be a little skewed, however, because the word lists may have been a little old and more suitable for a different climate.  There were a few that we never used as adults and so therefore she did not know as a child.  For instance, I never talked to her about salt because she was not old enough to cook with me yet—or so I thought—and we never sprinkled it on her food at home.  I began taking notice of all of the words Ella did NOT know from the test and started teaching to the test.  I bought pretzels with visible salt particles and asked her to lick the salt and described the pretzel as salty until she suddenly started saying “salt” every time she saw a pretzel.  Not sure that is exactly what the early interventionists were going for in terms of language acquisition, but it was a way to get better scores on the test.

Also, there were a ton of words on there that related to cold weather—snow suit, sled, snow. Hello! We live in GA!   Can we get a swimsuit or a waterslide on the list please?  She was just over 2 when I realized, she was a June baby and had encountered 2 winters in GA where there was very little snow.  I started singing the Frosty the Snowman song in October and reading The Snowy Day and suddenly I was able to fill in the little open circle next to the word “snowsuit” on the expressive language list on the test. 

Also there were words on the list that she was supposed to know that had synonyms that we used much more frequently in our home.  For instance, “noodle” was one of the words she was supposed to know.  We almost never said “noodle” in our house and instead used “pasta” or “spaghetti” much more frequently.  So I started trying to remember to expand her vocabulary to more words that we never used—I would say “Ella, would you like some pasta?  We have spaghetti noodles for dinner tonight.  Do you like pasta? Do you like noodles?” and I showed her the pasta as I put it on her plate.  A new experience... a new word—for both of us really.

Still, when we had pasta for dinner, she never said the word “noodle” and we never were able to mark it on the test.

Next were the body part words—we were easily able to mark off the parts of the face very early on, the arm, leg and tummy words, and soon enough she knew shoulder, elbow, knee and neck as well as thigh, shin and wrist.  She even used the correct words for her female parts.  These were easy to incorporate into bathtime.  However, we had two little girls in our family and these words were much more common than the male body parts.  We were never able to mark “penis” on the form, but it was on the list of words she was supposed to know.  But I was actually ok with her not knowing that word right now.  It seemed awkward to me to try to explain the difference between boys and girls to a two year old without an animate object as a prop and my husband was not planning to model for our children.

Fast forward to 2013 and we now have a little boy in the house.  My mom was giving Wyatt a bath and Ella walked into the room to find her scrubbing his little tummy. 

Ella asked very plainly, “Nanny? Why does Wyatt have that noodle between his legs?”

Fantastic.  She finally used the word Noodle!  IN A SENTENCE!

However, I guess we still need a little more teaching to the test, huh?

Sigh.  See how we hate noodles in boxes around here?
Love that girl.